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YOUNG PEOPLE ASK Do you have what it takes?  Myths and facts  How to reject pornography  Do you have what it takes? If you use the Internet, expect that sooner or later you will encounter some type of pornography. “You don’t even have to look for it anymore,” says 17-year-old Hayley. “It looks for you.” Pornography can temptContinue reading “Why Reject Pornography?”

YOUNG PEOPLE ASK “What​—you’re still a virgin?” If you want to give an answer and your answer is yes, would you like to be able to say it with confidence? This article will help you!  What is a virgin?  What does the Bible say about sex?  What do you believe?  How can you explain your belief toContinue reading “How Can I Explain My Beliefs About Sex?”

YOUNG PEOPLE ASK  What is sexting?  What are the consequences of sexting?  What does the Bible say?  What would you do?  What is sexting? “Sexting” is the practice of sending sexually explicit texts, photos, or videos via cell phone. “It’s almost the normal order of operation now,” says one man. “You text back and forth and prettyContinue reading “What Should I Know About Sexting?”

YOUNG PEOPLE ASK First, choose a proper setting for the discussion. What could that be? Well, think about how you would like to be treated. (Matthew 7:​12) Would you want the announcement to be made in front of others? Likely not. Unless circumstances make it advisable, it would be best not to terminate a relationship by meansContinue reading “Should We Break Up? (Part 2)”

YOUNG PEOPLE ASK Sometimes a breakup is a blessing. Consider the experience of Jill. “At first,” she says, “I was flattered that my boyfriend was always worrying about where I was, what I was doing, and whom I was with. But it got to the point where I couldn’t spend time with anyone but him. He evenContinue reading “Should We Break Up ( part 1)”

YOUNG PEOPLE ASK Have you found someone who might be a good marriage partner? If so, how can you tell if that person is right for you? It’s vital that you look beyond superficial traits. After all, the cutest girl may not be trustworthy or the most popular boy may not be morally upright. YouContinue reading “Is This Person Right for Me?”

YOUNG PEOPLE ASK Before you can answer that question, you need to know yourself well. For example, consider the following factors: Relationships How do you treat your parents and siblings? Do you often lose your self-control with them, perhaps using harsh or sarcastic language to make a point? What would they say about you in that regard?Continue reading “Am I Ready for Marriage?”

YOUNG PEOPLE ASK  What is dating?  What is the purpose of dating?  Am I old enough to date?  Why wait to date?  What is dating? You regularly go out with a certain member of the opposite sex. Are you dating? You and a member of the opposite sex are attracted to each other. Several times aContinue reading “Am I Ready to Date?”

YOUNG PEOPLE ASK  What is sexual harassment?  What if I’m being sexually harassed?  What would I do?  What is sexual harassment? Sexual harassment includes any unwanted sexual behavior​—including touching or even making comments of a sexual nature. But sometimes the line can be blurred between teasing, flirting, and sexually harassing. Do you know the differenceContinue reading “How Can I Deal With Sexual Harassment”

What you can do Understand pornography for what it is. Pornography is nothing less than an attempt to degrade something that God created to be honorable. Understanding pornography in this light will help you to “hate what is bad.”—Psalm 97:10. Consider the consequences. Pornography devalues those depicted in it. It also debases the person who views it.Continue reading “What if I’m Addicted to Pornography”